💌 I Don't Know What to Write
Not sure how to start your letter? That's completely normal. Starting a letter to someone you've never met can feel awkward. We've created conversation starters to help you get past the blank page and start a genuine conversation.
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A note on how this works
These starters are for community members writing to incarcerated pen pals. Incarcerated people do not have internet access — your letter is delivered physically by mail (or through an approved electronic system where the facility allows it). Learn more on the How Your Letter Gets There page.